It is kinda complicated to accept infront of your parents, lots of the things you do... Specially when you know that they make a big deal of it. maybe this sound familiar...
"look for a job", "do this, do that", "my house, my rules" this are some of the phrases i've been listening to everyday...
When i was still a child i remember my mom saying: "you are underage, so you do what i want..." When I became old enough and got my ID, a remember her saying: "when you get to university, you'll do whatever you want..." When i got there, she changed her phrase to" whenever you work and pay for your things, you rule mean while I do..." So i got a job and started to pay for everything i needed. So she noticed and then she said: "you still live in my house... my house, my rules, you'll rule when you get married".. guess what... i got married and know it s not my mother, but my housband saying: "remember you are married and you can't do whatever you want..." Things really didn't go good in my marriage so i got divorced... went back to moms house.. and i still can't rule remember the phrase!!! yeah this is house life works...
The truth is we have the rights to choose what we wanna do. But it is also true, that our parents know what is best for us! I strongly believe that the best thing you can do is live alone... work for your needs, be independent and learn the hard way.
Now it doesn't end there... have you been in the position where your parents tell you to get a job urgently! and it is not that you don't look for vacancy but you can;t find them, and if you do you keep waitting for them to call you?... Your parents have told you, you should move out and live alone... but how are you going to do that without a job? where a re you onna go, with no money? have you been or are you here? what did you do? or... what would you do..
